Cancer, a life-altering diagnosis that brings uncertainty and fear, tests the resilience and strength of those who face it. Among the many who have battled this disease is Engr. Lilac Hosalla Schonberg, a mechatronic robotics engineer and entrepreneur based in Abu Dhabi. Diagnosed with malignant cancer in August 2017, she confronted the challenges head-on, navigating a journey filled with anguish, determination, and eventual triumph. Now cancer-free, she has transformed her experience into a powerful story of hope, using it to inspire and empower others.
More than seven years ago, Engr. Lilac received the shocking news that her tumor was malignant. “I was plunged into denial, frustration, and despair,” she recalls. Despite leading a healthy lifestyle, she found herself grappling with the fear of an uncertain future. Her husband’s comforting words, “Skat, you will be okay,” became her anchor during those turbulent times.
The emotional toll of cancer weighed heavily on her. “The fear of recurrence haunted me, affecting my sleep and mental health,” she shares. Yet, her determination to reclaim her life and inspire others drove her forward.
By April 2018, after nine months of treatment, Engr. Lilac was declared cancer-free. This pivotal moment transformed her perspective on life and gave her a renewed sense of purpose. “I survived because my struggles are meant to inspire others to toughen up, celebrate life, and thrive towards one’s purpose,” she says.
Building a cancer-free life
Engr. Lilac’s story underscores the importance of proactive health measures in the fight against breast cancer. Her journey is a powerful reminder, especially in the UAE, where breast cancer remains the most prevalent cancer among women. According to the UAE National Cancer Registry’s 2021 report, breast cancer accounted for approximately 20.3% of all malignant cases, with 1,139 new diagnoses that year. The age-standardized incidence rate was reported at 52 per 100,000 females. Unlike global trends, a significant proportion of cases in the UAE are found in women under the age of 50, emphasizing the need for heightened awareness and early detection among younger populations.
Efforts to improve breast cancer outcomes in the UAE have been notable. Screening programs have led to a decline in advanced-stage cases, with localized disease detection increasing from 10% in 2011 to 25% in 2017, according to Burjeel Medical News. These achievements reflect advancements in mammography and public health campaigns, which align with Engr. Lilac’s advocacy for early detection and proactive health management.
Prioritizing health and wellness
Engr. Lilac emphasizes the importance of mental, physical, and emotional well-being in building a cancer-free life. “I take care of my health through the food I consume, regular exercise, and professional care,” she explains. Her diet focuses on organic fruits, vegetables, green tea, whole grains, beans, and healthy fats, while avoiding sugar, processed foods, and excessive caffeine.
“I don’t smoke, and I limit alcohol intake—zero is best,” Engr. Lilac advises. She underscores the significance of regular check-ups, screening tests, and early detection, particularly in the UAE, where efficient healthcare systems prioritize preventive care. Stress management has also become a vital part of her routine. “Stress is how the brain and body react to challenges,” she notes. To minimize its impact, she plans her schedule, avoids stressors, and prioritizes self-care.
“Life is about more than just work,” she adds. As a robotics and STEM educator, Engr. Lilac juggles multiple roles, including leading special education programs and supporting children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Despite her demanding career, she maintains a work-life balance, taking breaks and nurturing her personal life.
Engr. Lilac also credits intermittent fasting, organic diets, Ayurveda, and stem cell regimens for her well-being. “Every survivor’s journey is unique, so it’s essential to determine what works for you,” she advises.
Advocating for change
Beyond her personal health journey, Engr. Lilac has become a fierce advocate for others. As a breast cancer survivor, she leads awareness campaigns like the QAT Pink Tour and mentors women through the Babae Ako movement. Her advocacy focuses on empowering battered women, enhancing their livelihood skills, and building self-efficacy.
Her work in robotics and STEM education further amplifies her impact. As co-founder of QIWI Robotics and Technologies Group, she develops interactive programs to support children with ASD and inspires students to embrace technology. Her contributions to the Emirates Mars Mission and Emirates Lunar Mission highlight her dedication to innovation and education.
A message of hope
Engr. Lilac’s journey has inspired countless individuals. Her message to others is simple yet profound: “Yes, I had cancer, but cancer never had me.”
To fellow survivors, she offers these words: “Smile and say, ‘I choose to win every single day.’ Never lose your zest for life, even in the face of a scary diagnosis. If there’s a will to win, there’s a way to live.”
For Engr. Lilac, life is a series of unpredictable challenges. “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf,” she says. Her second lease on life is a reminder to celebrate resilience, embrace purpose, and keep moving forward.
